On the basis of my friends. In the past couple of days, I have:
*called a friend at 1am on a monday morning and invited her to go singing with me, and she got dressed and came.
*seen pictures of a friend dressed in a pilgrim hat in every single picture she took at plymouth rock.
*learned that another friend ordered the pilgrim hat on the internet to ensure that C's wish to wear a goofy hat in photos wouldn't go unfulfilled. after all, we can't just leave goofy hat wearing on vacations to chance... or can we?